Hnub no, ntau qhov yooj yim tsuas yog "juggle" cov lus sib cav, feem ntau pseudo-scientific, ntawm lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib raug zoo ntawm txiv neej thiab poj niam. Koj tuaj yeem nrhiav kev sib tham ntawm monogamy lossis polygamy. Nrog rau tag nrho cov no, muaj tsawg tus neeg tuaj yeem teb cov lus nug: "Polygamy - nws yog dab tsi?" Wb sim ua kom pom kev ntawm sab ntawm tib neeg kev sib deev.
polygamy - yog dab tsi? Qhov tseeb, nws tsis tuaj yeem xav txog lo lus no hauv kev sib cais los ntawm nws cov antipode - monogamy. Niam qhov yog yas rau infinity. Qhov no ua kom nws muaj sia nyob hauv cov neeg tsim khoom tsim khoom. Psychologists ua pov thawj (thiab nws muaj peev xwm txheeb xyuas qhov no los ntawm lawv tus kheej qhov kev paub dhau los) tias txawm tias nyob hauv cov tsev neeg zoo tshaj plaws, ib tus tuaj yeem nrhiav tau cov ntaub ntawv hais txog kaum ob phau ntawv tshiab nrog kev ntxeev siab, kev xav, thiab lwm yam. Lawm, tag nrho cov no yog hushed thiab tsis coj "rau hnub ci."
polygamy - nws yog dab tsi los ntawm lub ntsiab lustsis pom kev ntawm instincts? Tias cov txiv neej thiab poj niam yog ob leeg polygamous thiab monogamous tib lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv lawv tej yam ntuj tso tsiaj sib deev. Thaum ib tug los yog lwm tus txiv neej paub tias tus poj niam no yog qhov haum rau nws haiv neeg, nws yuav tsum nres ntawm nws, tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam los ntawm lwm tus poj niam. Qhov no yog qhov uas nws monogamy los ua si. Tab sis yog tias tib tus txiv neej nkag siab tias tus poj niam no tsuas yog tsis haum rau nws cov kev xav tau thiab kev tsim tawm (lossis tsis haum), nws pib nrhiav lwm tus neeg sib tw. Nov yog cov lus teb rau lo lus nug: "Polygamy - nws yog dab tsi?"
Thiab tus poj niam ua li cas? Polygamy - yog dab tsi nyob rau hauv cov poj niam? Koj puas xav tias lawv txawv? Tsis yog kiag li. Txiv neej tsis muaj polygamous ntau dua li kev sib deev ncaj ncees. Lub instinctive, tsiaj xwm ntawm ib tug poj niam, uas tau muab rau nws los ntawm niam xwm, yog nyob rau hauv tib txoj kev ob polygamous thiab monogamous tib lub sij hawm.
Yog ib tug poj niam ntsib ib tug txiv neej inseminator zoo tagnrho rau nws nyob rau hauv ib tug xov tooj ntawm tsis, ces nws yuav tsom ntsoov rau nws. Qhov no yog ib tug manifestation ntawm poj niam monogamy. Tab sis yog hais tias nws xav tias (nyob rau theem ntawm instincts) tias tus txiv neej tsis txawm ib feem haum nws, ces tus poj niam yuav tam sim ntawd pib mloog rau lwm tus txiv neej. Thiab ntawm no peb pom zoo ib yam polygamy ib yam li txiv neej.
Yog li ntawd, cov lus teb rau lo lus nug: "Polygamy - nws yog dab tsi?" - yooj yim li sai tau. Nws yog ntau npaum li ib tug natural ib feem ntawm kev sib deev lub neej, psychology thiab instincts ntawm ib tug neeg limonogamy. Tab sis yog vim li cas nws tsis pom tseeb rau tus layman? Instinct muaj hwj chim loj heev rau ib tug neeg, tab sis ignorance proportionate rau nws tsis cia lub hwj chim no to taub. Los ntawm cov lus hais saum toj no, ib tus tuaj yeem kos cov lus pom tseeb tias cov dab neeg uas cov txiv neej polygamy mus dhau tag nrho cov kev txwv thiab ciam teb yog exaggerated thiab sau los ntawm cov poj niam uas tsis pom lawv qhov tsis txaus lossis tsuas yog tshwm sim ntawm lawv tus kheej polygamy. Yog tias koj cais "kev hlub" los ntawm kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev sib deev tsis muaj zog thiab kev sib deev muaj zog, ces txhua yam yog nyob ntawm qhov kev xav ntawm kev yug menyuam. Thiab qhov no ua kom yooj yim rau txoj haujlwm ntawm kev nkag siab ntawm kev sib deev.
