Cov niam txiv yuav tsum nkag siab zoo: nws nyob ntawm lawv yav tom ntej lawv tus menyuam yuav muaj dabtsi. Thiab nws tsis yog hais txog khoom plig, khaub ncaws lossis ib lub tsev kawm ntawv. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev coj ncaj ncees thiab sab ntsuj plig uas lawv tuaj yeem coj los rau hauv lawv tus menyuam. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog lawv tus uas yuav dhau los ua lub hnub qub qhia uas yuav tsis cia lawv cov crumbs ploj mus yav tom ntej.
Lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb hauv kev yug me nyuam yog muab cov ntaub ntawv hais txog kev phooj ywg. Tom qab tag nrho, kev sib raug zoo yog ib feem tseem ceeb ntawm lub neej. Pom zoo, nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau xav txog ib tug me nyuam zoo siab uas tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus. Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum tau qhia koj tus menyuam txij li thaum yau txog kev tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus. Thiab cov paj lug hais txog ib tug phooj ywg zoo meej rau lub hom phiaj no.
Vim li cas me nyuam thiaj kho siab?
Nws yooj yim heev rau phooj ywg nyob rau hauv kindergarten, vim hais tias lub sij hawm no, cov me nyuam feem ntau tsis xyuam xim rau cov khaub ncaws, kev sib raug zoo, hnub nyoog, thiab lwm yam. Tab sis nrog kev hloov mus rau tsev kawm ntawv, txhua yam yog qhov hnyav heevpauv.
Txoj kev cai sib txawv ua tiav ntawm no, thiab cov uas tsis paub nrog lawv sai sai pom lawv tus kheej ntawm "cov neeg poob". Cov me nyuam zoo li no zoo li cov kab dawb, tsis muaj txiaj ntsig thiab tsis nyiam rau leej twg. Tab sis qhov phem tshaj, dhau sij hawm, lawv dhau los ua lub hom phiaj yooj yim rau cov neeg uas xav tsa lawv txoj kev sib raug zoo los ntawm kev thuam lwm tus.
Tom qab ntawd, tus menyuam uas tau tsav tsheb tau thim rov qab, nws pib muaj teeb meem nrog nws txoj kev kawm, thiab kev ntseeg ntawm tib neeg yuav ploj mus ib hnub. Yuav zam tau li cas? Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los qhia tus menyuam cov kev cai lij choj uas tsis tau sau tseg hauv zej zog txij thaum pib, yog li ntawd, ib zaug hauv pab pawg tshiab, nws tuaj yeem koom tau yooj yim. Thiab los pab rau qhov no, txawm hais tias nws yuav zoo li cas, cov lus paj huam ib txwm hais txog cov phooj ywg.
Vim li cas siv cov lus pov thawj?
Yog li, qhov teeb meem ntawm cov menyuam yaus raug rho tawm yog qhov lawv tsis paub yuav coj li cas hauv qhov no lossis qhov xwm txheej ntawd. Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog txij li thaum yau los piav qhia rau tus menyuam txog cov cai ntawm kev sib txuas lus, uas yog ua raws li kev hwm thiab kev ntseeg.
Paj Lug hais txog ib tug phooj ywg tuaj yeem yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws txhais tau tias ua tiav lub hom phiaj no. Muaj ntau qhov laj thawj rau qhov no:
- Ua ntej, lawv cov ntsiab lus tso cai rau koj nkag siab txog kev xav ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Tom qab tag nrho, txhua lo lus pov thawj yog ib txoj cai me me uas qhia meej txog cov ntsiab cai ntawm kev phooj ywg. Piv txwv li, "poob koj tus kheej, tab sis pab tus phooj ywg tawm."
- Thib ob, cov paj lug feem ntau muaj ib kab lus, uas tso cai rau koj nco ntsoov lawv yam tsis muaj kev siv zog ntau.
- Thirdly, kev siv pej xeem kos duab yuav tsis tsuas yog ntxiv dag zog rau kev paub ntawm tus me nyuam, tab sis kuj pab txhim khonws creativity.
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Tam sim no wb tham txog kev phooj ywg nws tus kheej thiab cov ntsiab cai dab tsi nws yog raws li. Tab sis koj yuav tsum nkag siab tias yog tias feem ntau ntawm cov lus tau hais zoo li qhov tseeb yooj yim rau tus neeg laus, ces rau tus menyuam nws yog hav zoov tsaus. Yog li ntawd, txhua lub sijhawm tsis nkag siab nws yuav tsum tau piav qhia zoo, thiab tsuas yog tom qab ntawd txav mus rau lwm qhov.
Yog li, cia peb pib nrog lub hauv paus ntawm kev phooj ywg, xws li kev ntseeg siab. Tom qab tag nrho, leej twg tuaj yeem ua phooj ywg nrog ib tus neeg uas tsis tuaj yeem tso siab tau? Cov lus piv txwv txog ib tug phooj ywg siv tau li cas?
- "Ib leeg rau ib leeg" - zoo meej rau cov menyuam yaus txhua hnub raws li nws yooj yim ua raws.
- "Tsis muaj phooj ywg - saib, pom - saib xyuas."
- Ib yam piv txwv zoo yuav yog lo lus paj lug "Ib tug phooj ywg qub muaj nqis tshaj ob tug tshiab."
Tom ntej no, koj yuav tsum piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias kev phooj ywg yog tsim los ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Yog tsis muaj nws, kev sib raug zoo yuav tsis ua haujlwm. Piv txwv li, cov paj lug hauv qab no hais txog cov phooj ywg yog qhov tsim nyog.
- "Ib tug goose tsis yog phooj ywg rau npua" - yog, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob sim ua phooj ywg nrog tus neeg tsis xav tau.
- "Neeg tsis zoo nrog hluav taws" yog lwm qhov piv txwv uas lees paub cov lus dhau los.
- Tseem muaj ib lo lus paj lug hais tias: "Tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj qhov teeb meem tsis tawm mus." Nws yog qhov yooj yim heev, tab sis nws qhia tau hais tias lub hauv paus ntawm kev phooj ywg. Koj kuj yuav tsum tau piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias yog nws tus phooj ywg tso nws ib zaug, feem ntau qhov no yuav tshwm sim dua yav tom ntej.
Vim li cas thiaj tseem ceeb kom muaj phooj ywg?
Thaum lub sijhawm cob qhia, nws zoo li tus menyuam yuav nug cov lus nug: "Vim li cas peb xav tau phooj ywg?" Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau lub sijhawm no kom tsis txhob ntxhov siab thiab muab lus teb meej kom tus menyuam nkag siab txhua yam kom raug.
Txhua lo lus pov thawj hais txog ib tug phooj ywg tuaj yeem pab tau qhov no. Piv txwv li:
- "Yuav ua li cas nyuaj, ces nrog phooj ywg nrog luag."
- "Txawm tus muv ceev tshaj plaws ib leeg tsis tuaj yeem nqa zib mu ntau."
- "Koj tsis tuaj yeem khi ib lub pob nrog ib txhais tes."
- "Ib tug phooj ywg tsis ntshai hma phem."
Hauv paus ntsiab lus, muaj ntau yam piv txwv. Tab sis lub ntsiab lus yog tib yam rau txhua tus - nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom nyob kaj siab lug tsis muaj phooj ywg. Thiab nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav kom lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov saum toj no kom zoo dua mus txog lub siab ntawm tus me nyuam, siv cov dluab ntawm heroes los ntawm nws nyiam cartoons ua piv txwv ntxiv. Tom qab tag nrho, qhov kev pom zoo li no yuav pab txhawb kev loj hlob ntawm koj tus menyuam.
